A few days I professed my attraction to a queen and she asked me to why I felt this way so this is how I got will get to my answer. I first have to understand a few things like what is attraction and even why attract?
Let me start by saying that life to me is my soul's process of remembrance. It is the interval by which the my soul tries to remember what it knows and understand why it knows what it knows. How does this work exactly? My soul is constantly attracting energies towards it that would aid in its healing. On a physical level, the said energies can manifest in a myriad of ways ranging from occurrence of certain people in my life, situations that may come up, objects I may acquire to even a weather occurrence around me(How cool is that???).
After the attraction is made then comes the healing/l-earning/remembering process( depends on how I look at it). How does the soul learn/heal? Through resonance. By this I mean, the energies my soul attracts carry a resonant frequency of a part/area of my soul itself that is intended to be un-earthed so to speak. Hehehe. Once this is done, the 'affected' area/part of my soul is revealed/illuminated thus letting my soul get awareness of the specific part ergo re-membering/learning.
I also understand that on the physical level, my soul expresses itself through my emotions so the way I feel about any aspect of my life should help me learn something about myself. Literally everything is a mirror to my-SELF. I do not mean that everything aspect of my reality are small pieces to a puzzle that is I, but I mean that the different aspects in my reality bring out attributes in my-SELF that I should observe and thus evolve and understand more about SELF. For example, I would have never known that I am kind up until a situation comes about that requires my kindness and I act as such.
So in essence, I would never know the reason why my soul attracted a given energy up until the lesson has been learnt. The sad part is, the matrix had programmed me to go through life with check-lists :- defining a 'type' of a spouse before getting into a relationship; coming up with five-year plans e.t.c. I shouldn't limit my reality to a box of simple definitions but leave room for infiniteness because the universe is infinite and possibilities endless. Before trying to define a specific relationship, let it define itself to me by experiencing it, being receptive to the attracted energies and lessons to be learnt.
So back to the question I was asked. The reason for my attraction...I guess the only correct answer based on what I have gathered will be, "I do not know but I am ready to find out..!"